Belonging and being seen starts with you

Womxn have developed peripheral vision as a way to get the gist of our environment.  We take into account if our surroundings are friendly or dangerous to know if can we can connect or to keep up our guard.  We crave connection and a safe space.

Often there’s a fear connected to that desire — to be connected and safe — that keeps them stuck from accepting and loving themselves and receiving that from others.  That fear is not belonging and not being seen.  Most of my clients have been in that place, and so have I.

Can you relate?

I remember having a conversation in October/November 2017 with my mindset coach where I was doing a target market interview for her.  She told me, “It’s so hard for me to not go into coaching right now, but I really see you being a sensuality & mindset coach”.  It felt like an earthquake in my soul, an internal shifting that broke ground and created a new foundation.  I honestly couldn’t believe I didn’t see what she saw in me before because 1) I’m a pole dance instructor and 2) I’m a therapist and being a sensuality & mindset coach is like Oprah and Beyonce creating a school together.  I was excited!  I felt my jaw relax, my eyes brighten, and a calm in my womb that “Yes, this is my next step!”.

I continued to think about her words long after I finished the interview and was lying in bed.  A smiled curved on my face as I thought, “This is a bold move” and then fearful thoughts came up too.

“Will I still have community if I am a sensuality & mindset coach?”

“Will people value the work I do even if it’s not under the ‘practical’ business services umbrella?”

“What if someone says something mean or is especially disrespectful towards me?”

At the root of those fears was me accepting and loving myself because I know that sensuality can come with guilt and shame, depending on your experiences (society, religious, spiritual, and otherwise).  Connection and a safe space with others comes from giving those things to yourself first.

Spoiler alert:  I did!

I committed to loving myself higher and deeper by reconnecting to my body and getting out of my head, so that I could help my clients do the same.  Doing this work that I’m passionate about has been one of my greatest adventures, and I know I’m just getting started.  I’m offering a limited number of spots for 1:1 private clients.  Previous clients have used these sessions to tune into their body, reconnect to their pussy, release guilt/shame with sensuality, and be confident, sexy, empowered AF badasses in their business .

During this private coaching program, we’ll uncover your subconscious and conscious blocks.  We’ll talk about your connection to your sensuality and what you want that connection to be.  Then we’ll embrace that new connection with inspired action steps to live it out.

It’s time for you to feel free and infectiously joyful in your sensuality, and I believe you can have that.

Click here to book a Discovery Call now.

Drop perfect; it’s boring AF

When you’re being confident, sexy, and empowered AF in your body, and when you have a thought that lassos you back to when you weren’t living that truth.

Embrace a compassionate inner voice, not the critic with a whip.

That is one gift that I wish I could snap my fingers and give to every womxn.

Here’s an example of how this plays out.

Writing the content for IG and Facebook, showing up 100% during client calls, delegating t your team wanting to pull your hair out while drinking your third cup of coffee listening the critic that says “it’s not good enough” and “you need to do more before you even think about resting, so forget a nap and hanging out poolside”.


Writing out content for IG and Facebook, showing up 100% during client calls, delegating to your team feeling radiant knowing that your energy, expertise, and love for what you provide is magic and you’re doing your part and that is more than enough to be the sensual womxn you are meant to be in your business and your life.

I know which one you would choose, but which one are you living right now?

I help my clients with the latter and if you want have a sensuality fueled business where you are confident, sexy, and empowered AF, then book a call with me here: Discovery Call